Locktober is explicitly about the passage of time. It is committing to be locked up and denied for a period of 31 days. After that comes the theoretical prospect of reward and release. What happens when you realize you aren’t seeing it that way?
There is a notion that engaging in sexual denial means being devoid of sensation. Being robbed of stimulus. Nothing could be further from the truth. Denial involves the removal of one very specific sensation. You might take away the climactic experience of orgasm, but you are increasing the volume on a variety of other sensations and experiences.
Today is the 1 October. For many of a kinky persuasion, it is the start of Locktober. 31 days locked away in chastity, expressly denied orgasm. This year, my Goddess has decided that we will participate. Just not quite in the way that you might think.
At the outset, my Goddess requested that she control my orgasms. It was the first requirement in our relationship, and it has been the most enduring. To many, that would be interpreted as, “Oh, you’re in chastity, and you don’t get to come.” The reality couldn’t be more different. I submit, I am subject to her control, and I respond to her expectations. But control means what it says on the tin: I’m expected to do what she wants. Period. Full stop. With corresponding climax, when required.
