Love can present itself in the most surprising and anticipated ways. I was seeking exploration and self understanding. I looked for community. What I found instead was friendship, partnership and love. It has been rather epic and awesome.
So, it’s Ace week. Time to embrace that asexual in your life (just ask them really nicely if they want some body hugs first, ‘kay?) And while I’m not asexual, I have discovered that I’m asexual-adjacent. More to the point, I’m demisexual. Which is a lovely word with a fascinating meaning, that has had a complicating influence on my sex life.
It’s spooky season. Fall is my partner’s favourite season, and Hallowe’en is arguably her favourite holiday. It is a time of year when we think about warm and cozy. What could be cozier than a cocktail? This month demands a drink in its honour, and I’m just the bear to mix it up.
